Parent Saver &Â Marriage Saver
This book is brilliant because it actually gives concrete solutions for how to talk to a narcissist. I use this in my clinical practice and clients find it really useful. Most narcissist books describe the narcissist in negative blaming ways and describe dumping them as fast as possible. This one recognizes their vulnerabilities and teaches you how to protect yourself and your feelings while talking to the narcissist in healing yet effective ways. If you have read a lot of narcissist books, skip to last chapter which is the most clear and practical. Click here to order this book.
Can love and sex get better over time?
Sue Johnson is Director of the International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy and Distinguished Research Professor at Alliant University in San Diego, California as well as Professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Ottawa, Canada.
She has received numerous honors for her work, including the Outstanding Contribution to the Field of Couple and Family Therapy Award from the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy and the Research in Family Therapy Award from the American Family Therapy Academy. Dr Johnson’s best known professional books include, The Practice of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy: Creating Connection (2004) and Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy with Trauma Survivors (2002).
We covered a lot of ground in this interview, primarily talking about Sue’s latest projects as well as her thoughts on parenting and generational happiness. I know you will enjoy listening.[audio:https://www.doctorcarol.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/01-Sue-Johnson.mp3|titles=01 – Sue Johnson]
What do you and your husband think of Sue’s idea that your love and sex can get better over time?
Master storyteller hosts “Parenting SOS”
Sandy McDaniel is a master story teller who, for 20 years, has taught parenting internationally. Spontaneous humor and warmth are wrapped around her ability to solve everyday parenting and personal power problems. She offers a host of products and workshops. Her “Parenting SOS” website offers podcasts, a newsletter, and lessons to help you become “the parent you want to be.”
Dr. Carol was pleased to interview Sandy recently about her current projects and her thoughts on parenting and generational happiness.[audio:https://www.doctorcarol.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/01-Sandy-McDaniels.mp3|titles=01 – Sandy McDaniels]
Sandy is fun, isn’t she? How would you like to start implementing her program?
Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
By Sue Johnson
I recommend Hold Me Tight to my therapy clients constantly. My clients say repeatedly, â€œOur fights are in this book on pageâ€¦.â€ I have read literally dozens of popular couple and family books over 30 years and this is the best at addressing feelings of closeness, connection and chronic repetitive fights or deadening and withdrawal in the relationship.
Readers connect to the book. Resolving the issues of feeling connected, your partner having your back, feeling alive in your partnerâ€™s mind frees a couple to communicate and resolve long-standing issues quickly. Johnson also works with Gay and Lesbian couples, and this book seems to talk to their experience as well.
Often couples fight when they donâ€™t feel their relationship is solid. This book really speaks to clients and is the best explanation of the complicated â€œattachment issues.â€ This book brings that concept to life and makes it clear. By illuminating how to go through the seven core conversations, she helps couples move to a happier, more intimate relationship. She debunks the myth that relationships have to grow stale. She is happily married herself and she knows how wonderful a strong connection can be. A few clients find the book challenging to read but still feel that it is explaining something important to them.
I am very familiar with Sue Johnsonâ€™s work. She is by far the best clinician writing about and researching marital therapy. Amazingly, her method resolves even very difficult cases in about 12 longish sessions. John Gottman calls her the worldâ€™s best marital therapist.
I have watched her do therapy many times on video at workshops and advanced trainings. She is magic, but so far her books have been aimed at professionals and were too complex for even many professionals to understand, let alone clients. This one works!