â€¢ If you have an affair, see a therapist right away. Many couples survive infidelity.
â€¢ Discuss with your partner what he thinks he would do if he or she ever felt like having an affair. Tell him you would like the two of you to talk about it.
â€¢ Discuss and set guidelines together about what is appropriate and comfortable with regard to time spent with other people both at work and socially.
â€¢ Openly discuss affairs and possible affairs and your comfort with your partnerâ€™s behavior with people outside the marriage.
â€¢ Nothing you can do absolutely guarantees that your partner wonâ€™t have an affair, so donâ€™t worry, make a strong marriage and enjoy the life you have.